Seems like your sexual chemistry is off. That’s not a dealbreaker but what is a deal breaker is the fact that you’ve tried to communicate and she hasn’t made the effort to meet you in the middle and allow you to be vulnerable with her like you want to be. You want passionate love making, she wants to be fucked like a whore. Both are valid. I enjoy both. But I also have a partner who is willing and enjoys doing both. I feel sad for you hearing that you desire this emotional connection and you’re being met with actions that make you feel like that. Her desires are valid too but it seems like she’s refusing to compromise so you’re both sexually satisfied.

Personally I’d end the relationship just because I’d be really hurt to feel rejected, ridiculed, and unheard.