Thanks for that. I am growing resentful and increasingly frustrated. The more mindful of it I become, the worse it seems to get. I notice everytime I buy her something and don't hear thank you, or even just have a tally in my head of every little thing i'm doing for her compared to the very short list of stuff she does for me.

After the fight a few nights ago, I just fear another big fight could be our last especially if it happens so soon. I want to give it a bit of time to see if she can start making changes, but if it really isn't feeling like that after a few more weeks, i'll have to stir the pot again.

What she said last time was that I didn't appreciate her and what she did do and only focused on what she didn't.