My girlfriend is getting an abortion and I need help.

Not to be pro-life. I am pro-choice. But you need a reality check. You are far from being a perfect boyfriend. You legit influenced her to kill her first born. She maybe pro-choice too. But you do more indirect damage to her by adamantly rejecting her as a possible mother. Show her that you support her decision alone and do not influence it since it is her body. Show her she would be a great mother. Show her she would be just fine not having the baby. Remain neutral as possible. Cause she may use this against you down the road. Abortion is no easy thing. She will bleed lots and she may be in pain for awhile. Just be patient, caring towards her.

The fact she didn't want you there is a bit puzzling. Many women usually break up after an abortion cause it usually shows the man was irresponsible enough not to accept the fact that pregnancy occurs from vaginal sex. It also shows you as a red flag for not wanting a family with her. I am thinking of her mostly. So don't take this too personally cause darn it she is the one preggers!

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