She can still control her actions though. Maybe you need to let her know that you understand she is in pain, but insulting you is not okay. Do this in a kind way. Maybe ask her what she needs. Maybe she needs a hug, or to just vent, or something. She's obviously hurting.
you want this relationship more than me and you are desperate for a relationship, that's why you said that. When i give her space, she gets angry that I don't trust her.
It sounds like she has self-confidence/self-worth issues so she is believing you are with her out of desperation instead of you actually genuinely liking her. I don't know if you are just desperate or not because I'm just a stranger. lol