Is my girlfriend keeping me a secret?

Like tell her I want to meet her family before like New Years? I know like everything about her family. Who they are all married to, their kids names, how everyone met, what they look like, their jobs. It’s like I know them for real but I’ve never met them obviously. She told me she has been pushing it off bc that’s just how she is and that her parents are somewhat controlling and more catholic than I am and she doesn’t want them to scare me off with being overbearing. She told me her sisters husband had to agree to raise their kids catholic in order to marry their daughter and he had to be baptized, and im almost positive he’s either Jewish or atheist. While I can see her point if that’s her real reason, a year is too long to drag it out.

I also know all of her friends but have never met them. I know who they’re all dating and what they look like. But she won’t put me on any social media for her friends or family to see, since I can’t even meet them this is a big deal to me. I’m just afraid they all probably think she’s single

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