I am fault as well since yeah I do get mad really bad at times. But ofc nothing physical but it ends up with us cursing at each other. Like that bad. She wasnt lile that before. Its mostly me. So now she's saying she's tired of that. But we hadnt had a fight like that in a looong time. It was just recently when she'd been cold to me for so long. Not talking to me and generally not communicating at all that I snapped. Been asking her for so many times but she's just cold then one time I'm calling her but she's in another call of god knows who late at night I snapped. Then that's when she told me she doesn't want that anymore. Like she's tired of it and can't deal with it in the future.