Haha totally sucks donkey dick..but thanks for the feedback its very helpful. I feel the same as your buddy. If we are having a "break" we are "breaking up." What you're saying is spot on. Like you said she should commit to something she's fully confident in. I'm older now and more mature that I'm not going to kick and scream but this is truly heartbreaking for me. It just does concern me how its going to impact me personally. It's pretty much on the lines of having someone die. Shit blows. I don't want this to fuck me up....lol and to add some conjecture I feel like the same as your buddy is going to happen to me. She'll meet a dude in a few months and end up marrying him down the road. I just really really do not want to be 30, single, and drinking.