My girlfriend with BPD has episodes in which she breaks up with me to distance herself. Outside of the episodes, she’s very loving. However, the episodes take a toll on the relationship. Should we break up?

My ex gf was like this, but it lasted for days, not just one day. She broke up with me so many times and then always wanted me to come back.

She was pretty cold and heartless for the majority of the relationship.

The last straw was when I went on a trip to Key West with her and her family. One I didn’t really want to go with her on because I knew she was going to break up with me again, but wouldn’t take no for an answer.

She did right in the middle of the trip. All because she thought I was checking other women out when I was just sight seeing.

As soon as we got back, I refused to take her back ever again and she went batshit insane. Went no contact for the past 4-5 months now. She tried reaching me with an alt Facebook account asking me if I plan on blocking her forever. I didn’t respond back and ignored her. This was also after bragging about fucking 2 other dudes right before no contact.

SMH.

Anyway, my point is, you have to look out for your own well being first. Do not let yourself be a hostage to her manic break up’s and emotional abuse. Leave and don’t look back.

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