My Girlfriends Past Really Bothers Me

It’s honestly the complete opposite of okay. She says she extremely regrets what she did in the past and she hates herself for doing it. My school is private and things get out pretty fast since little people are there. Anyways she didn’t choose for that to happen. She thought the guys would keep to themselves and was complete wrong.

Yes I agree that what she did was distasteful and don’t recommend what she did but she didn’t choose for the majority of the school to know (not the whole school). During the time she did all this stuff she was in abusive relationship and got sexual assaulted. She grew extremely depressed and acted out in a bad way.

I don’t think she takes pride in what she’s done at all. She cares immensely what she did in the past and will take all of it back in a heart beat. So you just assuming that my girlfriend thinks it’s okay and she has no care in the world is pretty distasteful of you.

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