He is 6' 5" and 280 pounds now. He was 270 this summer. Yes, that obese, but not so obese he can't walk or swim.

I said he lived off of $13k before we met 12 years ago. His house was purchased through the trust (it is a 2br, 1b like 800 sq. Ft., so it isn't extravagant). We don't live off of that now. I don't know how he did it I just know that's what he said he lived off of.

He has his dive masters. He's been a been a scuba diver since he was 15. He has over 150 dives logged. We go on drive trips twice a year and he dove more often when his grandmother was alive (she took him all over).

I'm not defending him. I'm clarifying some weird tangent Reddit is on.