My husband accidentally overheard me “criticize” his penis to my sister and now isn’t “in the right mindset” for sex [bad comment overheard]

But if they do this following this incident he will know that it's just bullshit in an attempt to undo him overhearing something she never intended him to hear. He knows what he overheard was the truth, because it was said in a situation where she didnt think he was there to overhear. Anything she does similar to this after what happened will only make things worse. It's like pouring salt in his wounds because he knows that the fake flattery is only there in an attempt to manipulate him into forgetting what she said.

The fact is that I dont think there is a single thing OP can do about this. Her husband with either get over it or he wont. Nothing like what you suggested is going to change anything.

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