Guess you didn't see where he's already left her, hes become apart of the other women's family. The other women's children are attracted to him. Hes gone searching for this b***h in the middle of the night fearing that she would harm herself. All because his wife has had a hard year in her family with death and near death accident. Because it hasn't been rainbow and glitter. Sounds like if it isn't all fun & about him then he loses interest. He didn't understand that marriage isn't about just the ups. He left her, mentally, emotionally and now he has physically. He just won't leave the couch. But hey if you are happy to have your husband do this to you I'm sure the woman with no moral conscience will give it a heck of go!