My husband doesn’t find me attractive

Slow down, mama. The biggest thing that sticks out to me is that he gets frequent chances for self-care, but you don't. It's not a cure-all, but you need that time for yourself.

Aside from that, you need to sit down with him and discuss the stress you are feeling and explicitly say "I need more of your help in these areas." Yeah it sucks we as women have to do that at all, but it's better than suffering in silence.

Finally, if your struggles with mental or physical health become too much, please seek out medical help. It's okay not to be okay; that's why therapists and doctors exist.

Things can get better. In the meantime, please accept my hugs <3

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