My husband lied to me yesterday. What should I do?

Some lies are common sense and courteous. If my husband bought a shirt he loves and I think it's hideous I probably won't comment on it, but if he directly asks I might say it's fine. There's no need to hurt the guys feelings because I hate his shirt. There are also ways of communicating with one another that are done in courteous and constructive ways that aren't always truthful to the emotions we are feeling at the moment, but might be damaging or hurtful if said. For example: If I'm annoyed or angry at my husband I might want to say that he's a "Bleep Bleep and I hate when he acts like a total Bleep Bleep", while that is the truth of how I am feeling at the moment it isn't exactly for the best that I am 100% honest in sharing my truthful feelings. It would be for the best if I just either stuck a sock in it or find words that are much nicer than I actually feel like in the moment. Although I have no idea why a person would like about what they are eating for lunch like the above poster mentioned unless there has been an argument about finances or some sort of an agreement to not eat out, which of course is the type of lie that might actually be damaging because in that scenario they would be lying about keeping an agreement....idk, my point was long winded.....

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