I think it's fair for you to have alot of emotions regarding this, I would probably be upset by it too. But it is also important to remember that your husband probably went through alot of feelings and hurt during your psychosis too. It takes time to heal things.

Do you guys ever talk about it together? If he hasn't spoken to you about it, maybe he just has some things to process in his own time... and I really hope he hasn't taken too much from those judgemental people who responded negatively to the situation. I think someone else here said that sub-reddit is full of the advice to leave people very often, and I've seen that too, so I would try my best to not worry about that too much.

I hope you feel better about it soon and your emotions can settle a bit.