Oh now they're both morally rotten? I thought I deserved to be cheated on for my reaction? I thought I deserved to be gaslighted?

And I'm not assuming. You decided to come and comment on my writing in a very condescensing way. In the end, this is my piece of work. Whether you like it or not. You can give me criticism and tips for improving my technique. You can point out plotholes. You can point out inconsistencies.

But when the only fault you find in a story is the emotional reaction someone has, then I believe there is an issue.

You took the abuser's side. That was your take. You chose to punish me for my emotions over chastising the person who has physically and psychologically over stepped humane boundaries.