Yes obviously op is being taken advantage of and is in love with a jerk but no need to downvote her.... its a sensitive topic. Redditors are way too harsh. You know she probably cried in secret for days about all this, she is in a sensitive state and doesn't need downvotes or tough love from strangers. That would only scare people away. Give advice, thats all you can do. If you're mean people will disregard what you have to say. And no offense, but don't hit me with that adult shit. Adults are dumbasses. So are kids. Being a dumbass doesn't go away with age, and some adults are less mature than kids, and even adults stay in abusive relationships. Don't make people feel less because they're younger. I really really hope op can see that what her boyfriend is doing is absolutely disgusting and leave him, but don't be so harsh on the victim