My husband regrets becoming a father.

he doesn't want to take a family holiday, he wants to get his parents to watch her for a couple of weeks and go on a holiday without her, and I don't think that is fair to her.

This is a tough one, but perhaps a couples trip sans baby would be good for both of you. I don’t think you should feel guilty about leaving your daughter with her grandparents. (There are situations where this could get out of control and the grandparents basically end up raising the kid. But it doesn’t sound like you’re in that kind of scenario). Maybe your husband needs a vacation to hit the reset button and regain some energy and enthusiasm for parenting.

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