My husband tells me I am not pulling my weight around the house despite doing all that I can

Hire a housekeeper to come by once a week

It’s often unclear who does what in a marriage- my wife has told me for 25 years that i “like to drive” and she doesn’t consider that running errands is work

She will spend 1-2 hours making dinners which I find to be overkill - I don’t need an elaborate salad, side dish and main dish on a Tuesday. But I might need help organizing the kids’ rooms and putting their games back up

I’m a little prejudiced because it’s pretty well documented that my wife doesn’t respect my “true worth” so such a thing can be completely true and in our case something my wife’s family will tell me they had a talk with her about or my friends will tell me they talked to her about, but I would never say such a ridiculous thing out loud to my wife - it would make me look bad

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