My husband threatened to leave me. I'm so happy!

Wait.. but like.. wouldn't it be very likely that he suspected you were testing him and so he knew you would rather hear him say no to confirm that he didnt want kids?

But on a side note, that's kind of a shit response? On the very off chance you did decide to keep it, why would you want a partner who would be like "nope, bye bitch" and leave you on your own to raise it?

I've asked my bf the same thing. He's said he doesn't want kids from the very beginning. I've asked him how he feels about abortion and he said he will support it. I also asked him if I for some reason did decide to keep a pregnancy what would he do? He said he would be right by my side anyway because if the responsibility came, he would never abandon me or be absent in raising his kid. That was very mature and understanding and it told me that no matter what happens in our life, he's by my side even if it was something he didnt plan. THAT, was beautiful. To know I have a partner to rely on if times got difficult.

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