I think I’m this case age and where you both are in life do not match and that is clearly an issue you’re only a year older then myself you’re just starting off in your profession/working career! Go and finish your degree you’re so young and you have so much going for you having kids is a life long commitment and you’ll be the one stuck for 18 plus years his swimmers aren’t going anywhere maybe he needs to settle down with someone who wants to be a stay at home mum and not with someone whose going about to start living their own life! Please don’t have kids with his man he’s selfish and projecting onto you, he’s only thinking about himself and not about you and it’s clear as day once you have his kids he’ll have full control don’t let that happen.