My lack of follow through is killing my marriage

Wow. Just wow. What I just read here is some serious BS. Your husband is trying to make you responsible for regulating his issues. He is a big boy and he needs to put on his big boy pants and come up with a plan for himself to follow through on.

The problem here is most definitely not your lack of follow through. The problem is your husband, who is (supposedly) a grown-ass man wants you to mother him and do all this for him.

He's the one that needs to get his act together, take his medication and figure his shit out. It is not your job to baby him and regulate his ADD. That is his job and he is twisting everything to make it seem like you're making this a problem because he has to take responsibility for himself.

I feel bad for you.

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