Let me guess, he just starts grabbing at you out of nowhere and demands sex no matter what you’re doing or how tired you are?

Yeah that shit gets old real quick. After a while I ended up feeling like a bang-maid and blew up at my husband. His thing would be just asking “are we gonna fuck later” no matter what I was doing at the time or what mood I was in. I don’t like obligating myself to sex later that evening when I have no idea how I’m going to feel at that time, and lord would he pout if I said yes earlier and changed my mind later.

I wish I could say it’s all better but the truth is I still have sex a lot more often than I really want to just because it makes life easier for me at the moment. Dealing with my kid just drains me of everything and I don’t have it left in me to deal with pouting or resentment or depression from my husband from not getting laid.