My long term gf, best friend and what I thought was soul mate cheated on me...is there any way back?

Brother… First off, I feel your pain. Been there. I’m in my 40s, and I’ve been through every relationship situation you can think of. Including this one. I would say, there could be a chance… But man to man, I think you really need to Make her sweat it out. Let her really miss you. Don’t answer her texts for about a month. Let it flush out. You’ll be wondering, and waiting, and thinking, and hurting in the meantime… But in 30 days, I guarantee you two things… You’ll give a shit less… And she’ll be dying to get you back. At that point, it’ll be in your court. Where do you want her or not. But if you do take her back, you better make her promise to a lot of conditions. Including no more hanging out till 2 AM and make her sweat it out. Let her really miss you. Don’t answer her texts for about a month. Let it flush out. You’ll be wondering, and waiting, and thinking, and hurting in the meantime… But in 30 days, I guarantee you two things… You’ll give a shit less… And she’ll be dying to get you back. At that point, it’ll be in your court. Where do you want her or not. But if you do take her back, you better make her promise to a lot of conditions. Including no more hanging out till 2 AM. She’s not 22. And if she wants a serious, long-term relationship, she better be home at night with you.

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