Agreed I discussed an experimentation encounter with my better half. She preceded to say “I get it your bi” I vehemently disagreed out of fear. And now she is very homophobic around males that I interact with. Over time I have showed her how important and Irreplaceable she is to me. And as more time passes and I learn more about my self I now have honest conversations about my own confusion and the many shades of gray about being in this world and having these feelings. She only lived in the black and white. But time, compassion, and communication is opening her to explore the shades of gray with me. She has a fear of losing you so empathize and cut her a break too.