This is an interesting question. My gut feeling is "no", not because this situation has come up ever, but based on her demeanor around the topic of exes and a tendency I think she has to make a comparison of herself.

At the same time, I think she could say "yes", because of the establishment that there is no interest from my end (basically, the justification she uses for herself).

I do often find these types of double standard situations that often go over looked: "how would you feel if the role were reversed", and I think then she tends to acknowledge it.

It reminds me of the comparison she makes between: the "dates" that she goes on which I've described in the OP, and the fact that I occasionally exchange messages with a platonic woman friend over Instagram. I went on one date with that woman a few years ago, and it was platonic ever since; I don't think the comparison is very valid because that woman lives in a different country, we don't see each other ever and the messages are pretty occasional and benign (sharing cat pictures or something of that nature).