My (m23) ex gf (f20) I’ll call her L ended up sleeping with one of my best friends (m22) C after we broke up.

Thank you for the advice. I’m just having a really rough time right now. Every single bone in my body wants to send her a text just asking if she’s okay. But my brain knows that’s probably a bad idea. I can’t sleep, I can’t play games, make my music, I can’t even think of anything except how she’s feeling. I know alot of that is my anxiety going off right now, but I just wish I wasn’t this hung up over her, or I just wish she wanted to be with me so we could be together, and I honestly don’t know if I can get over her. It’s been almost 4 months. So far our break up is almost as long as our relationship which was official for like 4 and a half months. But despite our time being short together I still felt like we had something special, and that she was special. I felt the latter from the night we first started talking.

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