My [M25] girlfriend [F24] broke up with me via text ten minutes after saying she loved me, and is now ghosting me. No clue how to proceed. I desperately need advice.

I'm so sorry you've had to have these lessons in this way... it sounds like a lot of bad timing more than anything, but hopefully you can reconcile your upset over this and not blame yourself too harshly, and after you've had a bit of time to grieve this loss you can turn it into a better next relationship.

I apologize, there's a lot of comments on this which I haven't read, so this has probably already been suggested but if you're not already in therapy you really need it. It will help you get around your co-dependent behavior. You need to manage your mental health, not expect your partners to manage it for you. Especially when they're in crisis.

Look after yourself for a while before you try another relationship. You sound like a good person, you just have some better self-management techniques to learn.

Take care, I wish you swift heart-healing from this.

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