Sounds like that bar is on track be set higher and higher no matter how much you are doing and contributing. I know that sub ..... I got banned and I actually dedicate my life to helping women’s health (for free) if that gives any idea of how whack and delusional this group is. They are so hell bent on destroying good relationships and I would see this new development with your girlfriend as a massive red flag. This group is so crazy and I don’t think it’s possible to date someone intrenched in the culture. I think your girlfriend will get worse if she doesn’t leave this sub plus I question her interest in the sub anyway. It’s actually mostly permanently single angry delusional women there. How sad for anyone to join when they actually have a loving respectful partner.