My [M26] girlfriend [F26] admitted to pretending to want sex for much of our relationship, I feel lied to

Omg I feel you girl and any one feeling sexually frustrated! A quickie doesn’t count as sex for me if I don’t get to cum and honestly my ex did that a lot and it wasn’t fun all ! It made me despise having sex with him! Kind words and actions does work in these situations. Maybe check what she’s actually interested/ invest her time in? Kz honestly as a girl I’m appreciate & in turn more turned on with a guy if they help me out with house chores and all. And Maybe yous have to kind of go back to that dating phase again and see if yous can work on building something from there.. Does she not have any sexual fantasies at all? Or she’s feeling someone else and/or did she experience any sexual trauma or she just simply doesn’t like how you perform? Sorry to ask but something to also consider too.

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