God do I know how you feel.

I have been supporting my mom for about four years as well and she loses her shit over the tiniest things. Just this morning she got all pissy at me for not putting away my clean dishes from the night before despite how often I've cleaned up after her. She won't do a bloody thing for me. Keeping on the theme of dishes, she will gladly clean up after our roommate but will intentionally leave any dish that was mine for me to put away. Never empties the dishwasher and when she does she makes sure the whole house knows how much of an inconvenience it is for her. She is a slob and leaves stuff laying around all the time but when I don't put away my dishes its like a personal attack against her. There is always something with her and I am fucking sick of her childish attitude.

I got into a car accident back in October and I'm really wishing that the damage was fatal rather than a bit of whiplash.