My mum kicked me out over her drug abusing partner but still hounds me for money.

OP - I want to be blunt, I know sorta what your going through.

To kinda some it up, my mother was very similar, there was a point in my life my brother and his wife, as well as his wife parents tried to adopt me.

Mom was on cocktail of prescribed medication and occasionally would "borrow" my Adderall which treated my ADHD and asked our family for money and still does in a much more low key way.

Life was a fucking shit show that never seemed to be "normal" hell in the ballpark of "normal", tell I got out and away from her. I was able to get out through Job Corps, get some training and eventually got a decent job and I am now very comfortable. I still talk to her but our relationship has drastically improved. I had to completely cut her off, once she finally realized her shit wasn't going to fly anymore with me.

I still think being adopted would have been better in the longrun, every time I am invited to a friends house for holiday or what not I always think of this is what I could have had, either sitting around a couch, table, or whatever, I definitely envy that family feeling and it always makes me tear up inside.

If I were you, I would reach out to the family you trust/know and see of they can help with your siblings. I just had a co-worker who had a kid, within a month his sister " who he hates " who's a screw up lost her kid, and now hes taking care of two kids. There are people out there like this and I hope someone in your family can help.

It will eventually get better.

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