My ndad may never walk again but I don't feel bad about it

Yeah he tried to hoover me in saying he got a lawyer and was going to do a lawsuit b/c my minor sibling was in the car and also hurt, I was just like "Well I hope it works out and you use your award responsibly." He just huffed, I think he thought I was calling to try and get money out of him or something when I was only appeasing my ailing sad grandparent.

I think they think I'm poor because I choose to live with other people, but I just like being around others because it makes me feel safe. I'm not going anywhere near any of them, if anything this has shown me what I was doing was the best thing possible.

I just worry sometimes because I would be really bummed out if a friend of mine's dad had been in a similar accident, but I can't bring myself to give a fuck about him. I feel bad about my sister but she's going to recover just fine, thank god for seatbelts.

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