My parents dropped the bomb yesterday.. they're separating. Men of AskMen who have been in this situation, how have you coped and helped you family cope?

My parents split when i was 10/11 so its a little different. I was never distraught about my parents splitting because, honestly, i knew it would make everyone happier. I wouldnt have to hear yelling and see them being passive aggressive or in bad moods. My parents would eventually become happier just because it turned out to be the right decision. With that being said, your parents are not my parents and probably have completely different problems. I coped by making sense of why they are splitting and made me happy that we could have a better "family" as a whole with them apart. My parents also stayed kinda friends after moving apart so i didnt have it as bad as some others when their parents split. You seem to be pretty in tune with the situation and not very phased, but for advise. Just be strong and be there for your dad. Since you said your mom is moving w your brother, you will be the only one for your dad at a tough time, so be aware of that. Sorry if this is kinda rambling, had to get my thoughts out fast.

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