My partner struggles to orgasm?

The pressure might be getting to her. Personally, I can orgasm by myself but have a hard time with a partner. I think it’s because I struggle with being vulnerable, and need a lot of mental stimulation to get off. Foreplay and buildup like teasing and sexting throughout the day could be helpful. I am a pleaser so I always want to make sure that I give before I take so I have an easier time relaxing once my partner orgasms. If she has not been with people who care about her pleasure then she might be used to pleasing and not thinking about herself at all. I would believe her if she says she can enjoy sex without orgasm because you can. Take the pressure off of her and just focus on making it fully about her starting with trying out fore playing, kinks, roleplaying etc. (with consent of course). Also, see if surprising her works. She won’t have time to think about how to react and will stop her from getting into her head too much!

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