The money is coming from an abuser/molester is my point. The abuser should be in jail.
People can get out and earn their own money. I would never want support from a person who was abusive to me or my child. I didn't want my parents helping me out as a young adult for even school or a car and I found them annoying at best (and a bit dysfunctional at times).
I could only imagine a person who was beating or sexually abusing me sending me money. No thanks. I. Wouldn't want it from a parent of my kid either nor would I want to send it to an abusive person (this does happen sadly).
I would rather just make my own money. That's what a responsible parent does.