Is my psychologist [38F] being naive or am I [27F] the one who is?

I think Beauty is about accepting yourself and taking care of yourself and being confident in being you. You can have a model body and be young but if you wear ripped dirty clothes. Look down at the ground with a hunch back and a lifeless expression you’d be considered unattractive by many men so in regards to beauty I think your age and body shape doesn’t matter, everyone has different preferences anyways. On the other hand generally speaking yea there probably is a small percentage of men that prefer a woman younger then them, personally I don’t necessarily hold it against them because woman mature faster then men do and have a shorter timespan on fertility and it’s been happening for so so many hundreds of years that men seek for woman younger then them, I think these men are more attracted to innocence and the idea of virginity- a good portion of these men also are pedophilic. Do I think that men like this are in the majority in todays age? Hell no. I saw a research article (I’m too lazy to find it now) but the article basically found that the longest lasting healthiest relationships were those of couples closest in age. As far as the comment about Reddit- Reddit has roughly 330million users and there are about 8 billion people in the world, if I did my math right, Reddit would represent 4.125% of people in the world. I would also point out that everyone that uses Reddit has one thing in common - we prefer to be anonymous and everyone’s has there own reason for wanting to be anonymous so that’s worth pointing out lol.

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