My pwBPD made eggs this morning for my Christmas gift. I got the plate nearly thrown at me as she yelled "Scumbag, I hate you". Hope you are all having a Merry Christmas too.

Yep. Three days ago, my wife came in and yelled at me while I was taking a nap, mad because I didn't pick her up from work (she'd given me the wrong time that she was supposed to get off). She grabbed the keys to my car and stormed toward the door, saying that I would never see my car again. I jumped up and physically took the keys from her. She called the police and said that I put her in a headlock. I was charged, arrested (in front of my seven-year-old son), spent the night in jail, and was served with an emergency protective order forbidding me from going to my house for four days. Not seeing my son on Christmas day sucked worse than anything. Staying in a motel with not much more than the clothes I had on my back until the protective order expires tomorrow at midnight. Of course, this is just the beginning of this ordeal. I'm going to have to dip into my retirement savings to get a lawyer. Hopefully, I can get the charge dropped so it doesn't interfere with any chance of custody of my son (she and I are done). Even if that happens, anytime someone Googles my name from now on, they'll come across my mugshot and the charges brought against me. Merry Christmas!

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