my religious bf [M22] left me [F21] now what?

I knew that he wanted me to convert one day, but to take every time on my own pace if i wanted to do it. I just can’t get over how he broke up with me after 4 years over a message two weeks ago. We’re now friends but i still feel really..

No, you aren't friends. He's not even had the decency to break up with you in person, and you still call him a "friend"? OP.... you need to go no contact with him and start moving on.

When we had a conversation about breaking up, he mentioned that if I ever converted we can give us a chance again. I entertained the idea of it a few days ago because quite honestly I was missing him and thought maybe this is what I wanted. Converting has always been at the back of my mind, in a good way, I always educated myself and wanted to learn without the pressure.

You are only in your early 20s....srsly, there are thousands of people out there who're compatible with you, there's no need to convert.

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