said that his mind is all over the place and that he doesn’t want to commit to a relationship because he’s worried he’ll cheat. He doesn’t want to do that to me like the past two guys. He’s upset that he’s at this age and still feels this way. He wants to keep things the same while he sorts this out

Oh my god. Please do not do this to yourself. Seriously, please leave. Read that outloud to yourself. He doesn't want a committed relationship because he thinks he'll cheat but he wants to keep things the same?

This is honestly the BIGGEST LOAD OF BULLSHIT I have heard on this sub. Literally the single dumbest thing. Worse than the guy who tried to dump his girlfriend because the heat was really getting to him. This is so so bad and you don't deserve to put yourself through this garbage.