It's not as constant as it seems. Or so I thought. It absolutely has seemed to ramp up in the last week when they were not around me. I dont doubt my relationship. I can absolutely spend the rest of my life with this person. I know I have my own shit that's exacerbating the issue. I just can't tell the difference between normal and inappropriate anymore. For example, I used my previous relationship as a counterpoint. I asked how they would feel if I was friendly was my ex, who was also emotionally abuse. My S/O said its completely different and they wouldn't be okay with it. One of the biggest points they brought up was "Well, we knew we weren't compatible" except, the other night, they asked their ex why the ex broke up with them. So now, I'm starting to feel like that was a load of shit. I'm not breaking up with my S/O, I just wish this guy would go away.