My sister [23f] thinks that marrying her bf [27m] and having kids with him will make their relationship "spark up" again. How do I [14f] tell her this is a bad idea?

He is funny! But he's also weird, like, he comes over on Thanksgiving and he actually thinks he's so deep and poetic etc. He's comically arrogant as well.

My family is very dysfunctional. My mom was raised by wealthy parents so she has a really messed up, Paris Hilton-like vision of the world. My das was also spoiled as fuck as a child. He was raised in Vegas and he workd at his father's company until his father fired him because he wasn't being productive. Except that he was NEVER productive. I guess his father got sick of his bullshit and when he turned 21 he had to go to college eventually to pay his bills. Then he met my mom and they both moved to California and acted like teenagers until they were like 30. Now they're both 57 and act like clueless adults.

My brother Adam, who lives in Europe, was born when both my mom and dad were 27. My parents didn't really raised him. I think they looked at him as if he was some kind of trophy, like he was cute sometimes but nothing more. They had a lot of nannies taking care of him and such. He never developed social skills because as a child being held as a trophy. Then he moved to Europe and currently lives in an island in the middle of nowhere. He's also gay and has a new boyfriend every Thanksgiving. I think he has high-functioning autism but I'm not sure. I like to think he's just fucking with everybody.

My 27 year old brother is called Joe. Joe is the sane person in my family. I guess that my parents had another kid whenever they got tired of the previous one, so that's why Adam is the way he is as well. Same goes for my sister. They drift their attention from one to another and it goes like that. I was born when Joe was 13 years old and when I was a kid, he used to go out with me, play with me and say I am very smart and I can be whoever I want to be and it's important to be my own individual person. I love him to death. He also never used my parents money and lives in a pretty standard apartment in downtown LA.

Then we have my 17 year old sister. She's spoiled... she's always yelling at people and snaping her fingers when things don't go her way. We don't spend a lot of time together. My parents actually call her out on her behavior.

And my sister who I'm talking about in this post. She goes to college at least. I'm worried about her because she has a bright future and I don't want her to ruin it and fall in the same hole as my parents did.

I don't think my parents are bad people... I just think they were spoiled too much and don't know how the world works because they always had everything.

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