Ok muther humpers, heres my story. Parents divorced, mom sick and i choose to go to a trade school. Second year mom wont fill out finance forms. Great. Got a job and paid the balance. Graduate and have a tough time finding work. Mom passes away. Dad says come back home and he will get me a job. No thanks dad. My family is toxic. Ill figure it out. In the meantime the school calls my dad cause they cant find me and my mom is gone. I didnt change the contact info. or update my whereabouts. Sonofabitch. He tells them he doesn't know where i am to "teach me a lesson." Im lost in the city with a usless degree cause im completely without a support base and wasnt smart enough or mature enough then to work it out on my own. I could have been working my dream job and living a good life and im wandering the streets smoking pot and looking for a place to stay. It doesn't end there though. I didn't learn my lesson. Half a life time later i go back home with forgiveness in my heart to make my failed life about family and get pulled into a Shakespearean nightmare over an inheritance i didnt want and didn't even know was up in the air cause his mothers health was finally failing. Found out the hard way that small, manipulative people are evil that just hasnt hatched yet. Im not going into details but I'll never be the same and ill never be ok. Screw every last one of you who says something dopey like life is short and you need your family. This is the real world and if a person demonstrates a ruthless and cruel desire to manipulate and you stick around your only giving them time to write an opus on your back side.