My stepdaughter (10F) is scaring me. Any advice would be appreciated

I was 18. I was finished with school. I chased her. She did NOT want to date me. My cousin "forced" her to give me a chance.

Most 28 year olds wouldn't touch a teenager with a rope due to the huge difference in life experience and maturity gap. You were chasing her, but she could have easily said "no".

It took us YEARS to figure each other out.

Look, you've been with this woman for 7 years, and you even stayed with her when she cheated. Love isn't everything and you put up with a lot more than you should, due to your inexperience.

She is probably the most conservative lesbian I've ever met in my entire life. Just stop. Please just fucking stop.

That's why she cheated? That's why you've had to deal with that whole story surrounding the cousin?

Srsly, you getting a therapist and your kids getting professional help is what has priority here.

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