My therapist unofficially told me they believe I'm autistic!

Being good at socializing means lacking a core diagnostic criteria and symptom of being autistic. Setting yourself up with the belief you have autism and finding solace in that without actually knowing you are, especially with counter-indicatives present, could end out with you completely reevaluating and disappointing yourself if it turns out you're not autistic. Going into a diagnostic process with the mindset of being assuredly self-diagnosed could actually hurt your chance at receiving the correct diagnosis and help. Being excited about finding out you have a (generally) awful developmental disorder seems strange to me, personally.

I wish you the best of luck.

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