You really put into words what I experience day to day. Yes, when my “two-ness” is triggered all perfectionism, etc goes out the window. Although I think the way I react in those situations sometimes involve my one-ness (anger, etc.) I guess this also explains why I feel much more bothered by my one qualities than my two qualities. I think I tend to go to an unhealthier place as a wing one and I’m more aware of them throughout the day. My one parts tend to be the parts of me I don’t like, while I mostly feel healthy and secure in my two-ness and grateful for my two qualities. I haven’t dived in to Meyers-Briggs but that piqued my interest :) thanks so much for sharing