Thanks. That's the weird thing. It didn't fizzle out. I just know that something specific triggered it. He was working from home and emailing me sexy stuff and looking forward to talking when I got off work. A couple of hours later when I got off work he was on the phone with his job and said he'd call me soon and apologized. Then he called and dumped me. He sounded really stressed like he was out of breath and had been running or something. Then he blurted out "I've got to end this." In his whole spiel about why he mentioned his work productivity had suffered. Idk why I'd not thought of this sooner. Maybe he got a lecture from his boss or reprimanded or something and that freaked him out and caused him to panic. It was just so weird. I started crying and apologizing because I was worried I'd done something to stress him out and he assured me that wasn't the case. That he was having extreme anxiety and his thoughts were consumed by me. I think some specific thing at work triggered this. If anything he was getting closer and things were heating up, not fizzling out. But you're right, I won't contact him. Maybe he just needs space or maybe it's really over. I'll wait a bit to see.