He doesn’t sound that down to me. He sounds 100% certain that he’s completely in the right. Don’t fall for it. He’s not and he needs to hear it.

It sounds like his wife is liberating herself from a marriage to someone with really disturbing sexual hangups (sex is evil?) and it sounds like he is in desperate need of individual therapy.

It sounds like his wife is the only one of the two of them trying to do something to solve this problem.

Is her solution perfect? Not by a long shot. But HIS solution is literally “how about I don’t get the therapy I need and we both just ignore the problem and go on like everything is normal.” He posted to hear people affirm his wrong actions and intentions and hear them drag her at the same time.

Literally the best thing for him is to hear from people that he’s got some work to do on himself.