Hey man, I just want to give you a different perspective.

A lot of people, especially on Reddit, give the same type of advice. “Talk to her about it” “Take her on more dates” “Be more romantic” “Try to go to therapy”

While this advice means well, talking about it can make it worse and so can therapy Or counseling. The best thing I found was to make yourself more interesting and work on yourself. When’s the last time you tried something new? A new hobby? Took a risk on something? Got into a new project?

Are you in shape? If you are, you can always keep getting in better shape. Your wife will notice these changes in your lifestyle

If you make a big fuss about sex with her, it will probably push her away even further. You know how effortlessly it was when you guys were fist dating and it was all so new? That’s what you have to try and chase. You’re not going to get that from counseling and Candy and dates, she has to WANT to effortlessly do it with you again naturally. Not feel obligated because “now he talked to me about it” or “now we go to counseling over it”. Basically, be that interesting, masculine, very sure of himself man that continues to develop himself and make her keep falling for that guy.

I hope this helps you a little bit. I wish you the best brother