Why is my wife so shy/immature about sex?

She's very clearly not comfortable talking about it.

This is like my husband. He watches some pretty hard core porn stuff, but starts squirming if I try to just talk about sexual stuff with him.

She jumps up after sex and goes straight to the bathroom to clean up. There are definitely some intimacy issues there, as I am completely open (eager!) for pillow talk, etc.

That's not really unusual. women are encouraged to pee after sex to flush out the urethra to avoid a UTI. (they can commonly be the result of sex because of our anatomy). Also having cum drizzling out of us can feel a bit icky so getting rid of some of it is common. That's not anti intimacy at all, it's just practicality

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